A mom recently asked about how Fun-Schoolers know when to graduate their kids and how to celebrate such a momentous occasion. Here are our thoughts on graduation-
First of all, verify you are following the legal requirements for where you live. Some states/ areas have specific requirements you need to meet before graduation is even “on the table.” The HSLDA and your local homeschool support organization are the best places to verify this info.
Second, talk to your kid. Do they want a graduation ceremony with friends who are also graduating? Would they like a small gathering with family and friends only? Do they want something just with their family? Or maybe one of the other options below sounds more appealing to them.
If learning is lifelong- is graduation even necessary?
A lot of families in our Fun-Schooling community don’t ‘do’ graduation because they view learning as lifelong. Some families do a transitional ceremony once the child moves away from the house, takes over 100% of their education, gets a job, or starts a business. They celebrate that milestone in a way like graduation might be for kids in school.
Some consider their kids graduated in May or June when they’d be graduating if they were in public school.
Families who have students who are artists, musicians, writers, dancers, etc. like to put on a performance or convocation to celebrate their student’s hard work around the age of 18. As another alternative to a “graduation” ceremony.
Several families have had big 18th birthday gatherings with friends, family, and those who have supported their kids throughout their lives. Students can put out their completed Fun-Schooling journals from Pre-K all the way to High School like a portfolio of their work for others to see.
If a graduation ceremony is a value to you and your kids- go for it! Some local high schools allow homeschoolers to walk in their ceremony. A few homeschool support organizations and conferences hold graduation. Or order a cap and gown and plan your own!! As with all things related to Fun-Schooling, there is no “right” or “wrong” way to do this. Celebrate the accomplishments of your kids- and yourself- however most feels like your family!
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