“What’s this?”- Tips for homeschooling curious kids!

If your kid is always asking “What’s that?” or “What happened?” and dives into research like it’s a treasure hunt, you’ve probably got a Detective Learner. These curious kiddos are a joy, with their endless questions and passion for uncovering answers. You can help channel their investigative energy into their homeschooling. Homeschooling curious kids can sometimes be tiring; they often have a lot of questions. Today I’ll provide a few tips to help them- and you- thrive. 

Who Are Detective Learners?

Detective Learners are all about solving mysteries and digging deep. They’re the kids who love libraries, computers, and anything that feels like a puzzle—whether it’s figuring out how reptiles tick or why Minecraft blocks behave the way they do. They’ll take apart a gadget just to see what’s inside. They ask a million “What?” questions: “What’s it made of? What happened next?” They might spend months or even years obsessed with one topic. These kids will either guard their knowledge like a secret or share it like they’re teaching a masterclass.

Understanding Their Learning Style

Detective Learners thrive when they can chase their passions and dive in deep. They can become experts young, especially if you let them focus on what they love. Some might be super private about their research, treating it like a personal mission, while others can’t stop talking about their latest findings. Many Detectives, including some with Asperger’s, have a knack for hyper-focus and love science & hands-on experiments. They need structure and the right tools to keep their curiosity from feeling overwhelming. 

Tips to Help Your Detective Learner Thrive

  • Follow Their Passions: Let your Detective choose their study topic—whether it’s bugs, inventions, history, or something totally out of left field. Encourage them to go deep; don’t worry if they stick with one subject for ages. Let them use our core journals to dive deep into anything they want to learn about while covering all the required subjects.
  • Set Up a Research Haven: Create a cozy spot with a desk, good lighting, research materials, and shelves for their books and projects. Libraries are a favorite place, so plan regular visits to let them hunt for answers. Give them plenty of uninterrupted time and space to dig in. Include a copy of Lost & Found or another Brain Games journal. These are full of puzzles to solve that Detectives love.
  • Encourage Hands-On Exploration: Detectives usually enjoy flexible guided learning, especially materials that let them uncover facts. Our theme journals like All About Bugs, 7 Subject Science Portfolio: Minecraft & The Real World, and Travel Dreams: 30 Cities are goldmines. These are a fun way to let your student deep dive into their interests!
  • Nurture Their Career Dreams: Help them learn about the career path they are interested in. It’s not uncommon for a Detective to know what they want to do for work at a young age. If unsure, How to Make Money gives children dozens of options for potential jobs. It will teach them how to take their interests and make a financial future with them! They’ll research money-making ideas, from starting a business to side gigs, building skills for their dream career while satisfying their need to plan & research.
  • Be Patient with Their Questions: Those “What?” and “Why?” questions are their learning engine. Answer what you can, then point them to resources. Fun-Schooling journals can take a bit of pressure off of you by allowing them to learn how to answer their own questions.
  • Explore Unexpected Interests: Detectives often love patterns and systems, which can appear in surprising places like dance or movement. If they’re curious about how things move, the Book of Dance lets them investigate dance history, styles, and even physics. It’s a sneaky way to blend their analytical side with creativity. Or let them learn about Science, Cultures, Mythology, and Animals with Endangered, Extinct, and Legendary Animals. Sometimes, presenting something new and unexplored for Detective kids is a good idea. They do tend to get tunnel vision and may miss a new interest!
  • Protect Their Focus: When they’re deep in a project—whether it’s a science experiment or a carefully built Lego set—try not to interrupt. Their concentration is intense, and they need space to think. 

A Word on Balance

Detective Learners can get so caught up in their research that they forget to come up for air. Gently nudge them toward balance with activities like time in nature or art, to stretch their minds. They also might need additional support with Language Arts, as these kids are often very science-minded. Warrior Word Work is a good place to start with younger Detectives; Pirate Pronunciation for older students. 

If they’re private about their work, give them space but ask gentle questions like, “What’s something cool you found out today?” For chatty Detectives who share every fact, listen with a big smile—they’re letting you into their world.

For kids with Asperger’s or similar traits, routine is everything. Create a predictable schedule, but let them pick the topics. If they’re super protective of their projects (or that one special Lego creation), set clear boundaries with siblings about respecting their space. Above all, celebrate their expertise—it’s their gift, and you’re helping them shine.

Enjoy! 

Homeschooling a Detective Learner is like being their partner on a grand investigation. They’re wired to ask questions, solve puzzles, and chase their passions, and you get to be their guide. Listen to their interests, give them room to dig deep, and watch them become the experts they’re meant to be. 

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We cultivated this Detective Learner bundle with your curious students in mind! It contains our most popular journals for kids who love research, puzzles, and problem-solving. We’ve also included a suggested lesson plan to make implementing it easier.

How to Transform Your Homeschool: Perfectionism to Joy

Homeschool moms! Let’s throw our stress overboard! Let’s release the things that cause stress! Let’s set ourselves (and our kids) free from unreasonable and irrational expectations. Somehow, we imagined that these unrealistic goals were the right way.
Untangle yourself and your kids from the things that choke out the joy in learning!
Here’s how:
One of the greatest gifts we can give our children is the ability to take their thoughts captive and release burdens that were never meant to be theirs to carry. As homeschooling parents, we often focus on academic achievement, but if we aren’t careful, we can unintentionally plant seeds of anxiety, perfectionism, and self-doubt in our children’s hearts.
God never intended for us to live weighed down by fear or the need to perform for approval. Matthew 11:28-30 reminds us to come to Jesus for rest, and 2 Corinthians 10:5 tells us to take every thought captive in obedience to Christ. These truths are not just for us as parents—they are essential for our children as they grow into the people God created them to be.
So how do we weave these lessons into our homeschool days?


The Hidden Burden of Traditional Schooling
In many educational settings, children are trained to work for grades, external approval, and the fear of making mistakes. Every assignment is graded, every test has red marks, and progress is often measured by how few errors they make rather than how much they have learned.

When children are constantly evaluated this way, they internalize a dangerous belief: “I am only as good as my ability to get things right.”

This burden is heavy, and I’ve seen how it plays out in adulthood. It creates individuals who are afraid to take risks, explore new ideas, or step into their God-given creativity. Instead of growing into confident problem-solvers, they become people-pleasers, perfectionists, or those who avoid challenges altogether because they fear failure.
When I was young, I struggled with traditional academics. I saw myself as someone who wasn’t smart enough, always focusing on my weaknesses rather than my gifts. I even failed third grade!!!
But when I embraced learning on my own terms (at age 13) following my curiosity, using creativity, and celebrating progress instead of perfection—I discovered a love for learning that has lasted a lifetime. This is the heart of Fun-Schooling.

How Fun-Schooling Releases Burdens
Fun-Schooling is not about performance—it’s about passion, mastery, and lifelong learning. Instead of burdening our children with the fear of failure, we give them the tools to learn with confidence and joy.
In our home and in thousands of Fun-Schooling families, kids don’t study to earn grades or please a teacher. They study to pursue knowledge, build skills, and prepare for the future God has for them.

Traditional school teaches kids to focus on their mistakes.
Fun-Schooling teaches kids to focus on their gifts.

When kids are given the freedom to research, explore, and follow their interests, they become fearless learners. They know that making mistakes isn’t failure—it’s part of the process. Instead of becoming burdened by anxiety, they develop the mental strength, confidence, and peace that are uncommon in traditionally schooled children.

Teaching Kids to Take Thoughts Captive
So how do we practically help our children apply 2 Corinthians 10:5—taking every thought captive—and Matthew 11:28-30—laying down heavy burdens?
Here are a few ways to include character teaching in your homeschool day…

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Fun-Schooling & “The Let Them Theory”: A Perfect Match

As a mother of 15 and the creator of Fun-Schooling, I’ve spent decades helping families embrace a natural, joy-filled approach to learning. Recently, as I’ve been reading The Let Them Theory by Mel Robbins and listening to her podcast, I realized just how deeply her philosophy aligns with what I’ve been teaching through Fun-Schooling for years.

For me it started on the day I woke up, a homeschool mom of eight who was worn out micromanaging their education and depressed because there was no joy. So I said, “Today I will just say YES to whatever they want to do.” I had created a beautiful environment for learning, but curriculum was boring, limiting and too much work for me. I was drained and wanted to enjoy being a mom while homeschooling. I told my kids, “We are going to Fun-School today”. It was amazing. The learning that happened amazed me, and the joy set us all free.

Mel’s Let Them theory is about releasing control, allowing people to make their own choices, and letting go of the urge to micromanage. Fun-Schooling is based on the same principle—letting children study what they love, explore their passions, and skip the boring, outdated schoolwork that kills curiosity. Instead of forcing learning through rigid, one-size-fits-all curriculums, we let kids take the lead, trusting their natural desire to grow, explore, and create.

Here are ten ways Fun-Schooling and The Let Them Theory are a perfect match:

Let Them Learn What Excites Them

Mel Robbins encourages us to let people pursue their own interests, even if we don’t understand them. Fun-Schooling follows this same logic: if a child is obsessed with horses, let them dive deep into everything horse-related—biology, history, art, business, and storytelling—all through their passion.

Let Them Skip the Boring Stuff

Traditional education forces kids to memorize facts they’ll never use, leading to burnout and frustration. But what if we let them skip what doesn’t spark their curiosity? In Fun-Schooling, we trust that when a child is deeply engaged, they’ll develop the skills they need naturally.

Let Them Make Mistakes

Mel emphasizes that people learn best through their own experiences. Fun-Schooling embraces this truth—kids don’t need to get everything “right” the first time. They need freedom to experiment, fail, and try again without fear of judgment.

Let Them Go at Their Own Pace

Not every child learns on the same timeline, just like adults don’t all hit milestones at the same time. Fun-Schooling allows kids to develop skills when they’re ready, not when a curriculum says they should.

Let Them Create Instead of Conform

Mel Robbins challenges us to step away from people-pleasing and embrace individuality. Fun-Schooling does the same by giving kids the space to create, imagine, and build rather than just regurgitate facts.

Let Them Follow Their Curiosity

We trust that adults will figure things out when they’re interested in something—why don’t we extend that same trust to children? Fun-Schooling encourages kids to chase their curiosity, knowing that a self-motivated learner will always go further than a forced one.

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Be a More Joyful Mom by Following Sarah’s Life Tips!

These tips are from a post back in 2016. Some truths are timeless. Scripture truth will always “age well”. These simple truths will help to keep you peaceful, joyful, and grounded as a homeschool mom.

1. Don’t make decisions based on your fears.

2. Don’t gossip. “A whisperer separates the best of friends.” People who gossip to you, will gossip about you.

3. Take advice from the people you want to be like. There will be people who try to control you, but do you want to end up like them?

4. Don’t take advice from people who are driven by their fears. Take advice from those who live by faith and trust in God’s word.

5. Don’t be afraid to make mistakes. When they happen learn from them.

6. Overlook most of the stuff other people throw your way.

7. When in doubt, be gracious. Wisdom is knowing what to overlook.

8. Take a minute to encourage a child, no matter how busy you are.

9. Before you complain, remember the cross.

10. Enjoy today and love the people on your path. They are there for a reason.

11. If you have a dream, give it feet. What is the worst that could happen? God gave you that dream, don’t waste it.

12. Greed is ugly. Pride is ugly. Selfishness is ugly. Grace is amazing!

The Story of Fun-Schooling: Happily Ever After

I never set out to start a movement—I was just a mom trying to help my kids love learning again. 💡

One of my daughters struggled with dyslexia. Traditional workbooks drained her confidence and made her hate reading. So, I created hand-drawn journals—full of coloring pages, storytelling, and creative prompts—and suddenly, she thrived! 🌿✨

Other moms started asking for copies, and before I knew it, Fun-Schooling was born! Families around the world—especially those with dyslexia, ADHD, and creative learners—discovered a better way to homeschool: interest-led, joyful, and stress-free.

Now, with over 300 books and a global community of families, Fun-Schooling is helping kids fall in love with learning again. ❤️

If homeschooling feels boring, stressful, or rigid—maybe it’s time to Fun-School! 🎨📚

💬 Have you tried Fun-Schooling? Share in the comments! Ready to get started? Visit funschooling.com

How to Organize the Chaos (Chore Charts & Home Learning Plan)

Thirteen years ago, all the kids were 12 and under and I organized EVERYTHING. Now that they are all ten and up I organize very little moment by moment activity, I just make sure the basics are covered. Running a home with 8 kids under 12 was a very different season. Above is our “chore chart” for that season (see others below!). It was a great way to motivate and keep things on somewhat of a schedule. So funny that Esther at age 10 was going to the coffee shop for two hours a day. We lived on Main Street and she loved having her chill time there.

This was my actual Home-Learning Plan five years ago. It is simple for parents and delightful to kids!

  1. Logic Games
  2. Read Favorite Books
  3. YouTube Tutorials
  4. Nature Time
  5. Online Math Games or Serious Stuff
  6. Kitchen Time
  7. Spelling Games
  8. Complete 5 Workbook Pages or 5 Fun-Schooling Journal Pages
  9. Play Outside
  10. Art & Drawing
  11. Just Dance
  12. Chores
  13. Online Games (a reward for chores and school)
  14. Family Time and Board Games
  15. Movie Time
  16. Music Practice
  17. Dyslexia Games
    You can do these activities in any order, but Movies and Online Games should be close to last.

For chores, we would create new schedule once every 3 or 4 months. Everyone liked knowing exactly what areas of the house they were responsible for.

Chores are largely about teaching life skills and serving others. This journal can help!

Toddlers & Preschoolers: How to Choose Your Battles

Why do little children do the opposite of what you say?
Why do preschoolers reject new foods and green leafy foods?
Why do toddlers refuse to share?
Why do preschoolers always want what the other child has?
Why do preschoolers fight bedtime?
How can I help my child to have a good attitude when cleaning up?
What can I do to help my child to behave, listen and obey?

A little over a decade ago, a friend of mine asked me to make a video about “Toddler and Preschool Behavior Problems” for her MOPS group. Here it is, featuring a tiny Ember Brown:

Learn more about our littlest Fun-Schoolers here.

Check out all of our journals for Preschoolers and Kindergartners here.

Early Education: A Playground for Real-World Skill Development

In our family of 15, we don’t view k-12 education merely as a stepping stone to college. Our kids don’t even know what “grade” they are in half the time.

Instead of focusing on traditional academics, we see childhood as an exciting opportunity for our kids to begin crafting real-world skills centered around their passions.

As a homeschooling mom I get to create an environment for learning that inspires each child in the pursuit of their unique dream or calling, while exploring fulfilling options for a career.

Ages 2-5
From the outset, we introduce our kids to stories of passionate people who never give up, do great things and solve problems in the world. We are laying the groundwork for a life where work and calling intertwine. We love to read about people and find out about the jobs of the people we meet, from the high call of being a mommy or daddy, to the world-shaping influence of authors, political figures, heroes, artists and inventors.

I remember when my son Joseph was five, when he would meet someone new he would say “Hi, my name’s Joseph, I’m a scientist. What are you?”

Ages 6-9
We help our children to start a tiny business and engage with the world in ways that spark creativity and entrepreneurship.

  • Isaac’s bracelet-making and sword crafting were not just about making money but about igniting his creative and business acumen.
  • Leah, Ember, and Lilly’s craft sales at festivals were lessons in art, economics, and teamwork.
  • Rachel’s book reselling taught her about value, negotiation, and her love for literature.
  • Esther’s bath salts business combined chemistry with marketing, all while following her interests.

Ages 9-12
We deepen their engagement with their passions:

  • Providing resources like an aviary for Laura who is passionate about birds or a piano for Joseph who is gifted in music – these gifts allow them to live their passions daily.
  • We emphasize learning by doing, ensuring that education is not abstract but connected to real-life applications. Why learn something from a book when you can do it in real life? As homeschoolers we are not limited by the walls of a classroom!

Ages 13-20
Here, we move from exploration to mastery:

  • Investing in their vision on their 13th birthday We provide them with real tools to build their dreams, whether they lead to a career or a calling.
  • Skills taught are those they’ll use in their chosen paths, like marketing, leadership, or specialized knowledge.
  • We limit distractions to keep their focus on what truly excites and fulfills them. No phones until they are ready to run a business that requires it. They have to pay for their own phone, and we parents put filters on the device to keep the kids safe and productive.

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How to Teach Kids to Have Quiet Time/Bible Time

I believe it is so important to understand how to nurture a child’s growing mind. I have a passion to teach them to be curious, to love learning, to research wisely and to grow in wisdom, understanding and knowledge. It’s been my lifework to understand why some children struggle to learn, read, and focus, and I dig deep into these matters sorting through vast amounts of research on the human mind to understand how to unlock the potential of each child. I work hard to find the answers and tap into the child’s gifts, no matter what their natural strengths and weaknesses may be. And I test these ideas and solutions and share them with the world, and many thousands of children have been able to overcome struggles related to ADHD, Autism and Dyslexia.

I also believe that it’s vastly important to nurture the child’s growing body, to give the child the best foods, vitamins, minerals, enzymes, and the right balance of proteins, fats and carbs. I research and learn what is good and what is poison and ensure the child has sunshine and exercise. Because what good is a strong mind inside a weak and sick body? You can not care for one and neglect the other. Mothers and fathers everywhere make it a priority to care for the mind and body of the child, hoping that the child will grow, thrive and be strong and wise.

But this is not enough. We must also nourish the soul and spirit and character of the child as well–and even more so. How often is the care of the spirit the last thing we even consider at the end of the day? To nourish the spirit of the child is of greater value than all other efforts we could ever make to feed the mind and the body. How many of us have children who are starving spiritually?

Parent, you reap what you sow. If you plant in your child the seeds of the Spirit your child will grow in the Spirit. If you build him up in character, he will become a man of honor. If your daughter is nurtured in the things of the Spirit she will grow in grace, glory and faith. But if a parent neglects the nourishment of the spirit, the soul and the character of the child, the impact in the life of the child will be more devastating than if you failed to nourish the body and the mind. So I ask you, loving mother, faithful father? How will you tend to the garden of your child’s soul today?

A Simple Plan

Here is something simple to begin with. Make each child a cup of tea and make one for yourself and then you all go to your quiet spots with a Bible and Journal. Tell them that when they are done with “Bible Time” it will be “serving time” where each person helps someone else in the family with their chores. Turn on some peaceful music during Quiet Time.

In short, you begin by demonstrating what this looks like.

For younger children, you can have them listen to a Bible audio book. Get a children’s Bible and use Bible coloring pages. We have a number of journals that will help!

Find many more journals for Fun-Schooling moms and kids of all ages here!

Living Stress Free in a Stressful World

I want the share inspiration and encouragement that is helping me.

Here’s a talk from Nancy Campbell at Above Rubies, that explains the hormone Oxytocin, the “peace hormone” and how to tap into its power to reduce stress and anxiety, and give you a feeling of peace!

Click here for a post on “Tips for Reducing Stress, Media, and Clutter”!

Try one of my Art & Logic Therapy journals to help calm your mind: